NYGal, I feel the same way you do when H reaches out to me, and then backs away. It's agonizing. But I agree with TxHubby and taking notes for my own sitch. Act as if b/c from what I understand, they want to know you're moving on before they can even fathom coming back. Tough concept to wrap our heads around but, that seems to be the running trend. And either way, we'll be stronger for it.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
