NYGal: What now?

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Yes I was the safety net for 6 months, and she just kept getting further and further away. She became more and more reckless with her A.

So I am detaching, going dim and already she is noticing.

I think you have to get to a point where you don't care if you lose them. You have to shuffle the deck and make them be afraid that you are the one slipping away before they will truly awaken from the fog.

And as I type this I realize that I can live without her!! especially the "her" she is now. Matter of fact the "her" she is now disgusts and repulses me.