Endofit, yes, it is SO sad. I've pretty much confirmed that it was ow that I saw yesterday looking pretty grim. And that was the day after I got the text from W saying "I am so sorry." But she's run away again, and went from "Can we talk tonight" to "Maybe it's not such a good idea to talk. I have no real topic."
It's maddening. She misses me, she contacts me, she backs off. I wish I had just called her immediately upon receiving the text. I would have more information.
IMO, she wants back to where you were but doesn't know how to accomplish that. She probably figures she's messed everything up beyond repair. Just my opinion/gut feeling based on her continually contacting you but not being able to tell you what she'd like to. Next time this happens leave off the "about what" question. Say yes, keep your mouth shut, and listen.
