Thanks Thornton and GWH. In a good place today but we know how fleeting that can be. WAW has been in almost constant contact since S. Mostly about S13 and CATV not working yet and other logistics. I know I'm in for the boundary speech so have at it. ha Trying to be a cooperative co-parent but not be roughshod.

She was always having to come to me to help her make decisions. Maybe she will get some harsh reality while learning to make some of her own. It may be that her new found independence iss good for her without me. I'm not okay with that but that is reality as of today.

I am gonna do as a good buddy suggested. Proceed as though it is already over and you are moving on. Basic principle of DB but to hear it from someone not familiar with the site was good.

If I can do that, without being sucked back in by her, I will be on my way.


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016