Actually I've bee where you're at and wish I would've stuck to my DBng. I wasn't ready and I don't think you are either. I believe that we have to be truly detached before they come back 100%. I'm no longer allowing myself to be the safety net or fall back. I am polite but matter of fact. I have gained more ground in the short time I have been detaching than 6 months of being the freaking doormat! Stick to your guns! Act as if you are indifferent whether you talk or not, you have better stuff to do after all. Just my experience from making tons of mistakes.
Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined
