NYGal I am the LBS in a similar sitch as you. My wife is having an affair with another woman who was in a committed relationship and is still stringing her W along. I have been following your situation ans it seems eerily similar to mine.
Hello endofit. I'm sorry you're going through a similar situation. It hurts. I often think there are only a few scripts and they pick one and follow it to the letter. I guess we do, too. I can't believe they are happy, or why would they string anyone along? Are you in touch with the ow's W? Or is your W telling you all this? I wish we could just get to the end of the story. I'm dying to see how it all turns out for all of us!
I have talked to her and I am watching it first hand as well, it is sickening. My Ws OW is doing the exact thing to her W, that my W is doing to me! Temp checking, crumb leaving. Makes me want to puke!!
Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined
