i feel differently than the way you are looking at it. Your family is not a crutch, they are family. you need to DB them as well, but you need them in your life.

really think about this.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15