Hey V, just wanted to let you know I am taking your advice and working on the letter. I am not going to post on the forum because I am not that far emotionally to put something so internal out there. But I am writing it in my journal. Who knows when it is finished I may post it but too uncomfortable right now.

Just to clarify, I do look up to my father and grandfather and love them both. I also felt loved by them both, but never felt shown that love and compassion.

BTW our culture is German so that may have something to do with it.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16