The fact that I am here and trudging through this he11 doesn't show her how much I love her. Is unconditional love even enough for her, or is there something more she needs?
This is one thing I don't get either. You just feel like saying, "look, you're the one who needs to leave to be happy, because apparently I don't love you the way you want to be loved. But, you do understand that you wanting to go live is killing me, right?"
It's almost like we didn't not love our spouses. It's that we didn't love them the way they wanted to be loved. Because the fact that we are sitting here beating ourselves up, I think, is evidence enough that we do.
M:36 W:31 D:12 M: 8/9/10 ILYBNILWY/"want space": 2/14-ish/16 W moved out 5/24/16.
