i agree, talk to her. Make your stance known that you wouldn't give up on a marriage, but you can not force her to do anything. You will also try to make the most out of life no matter what happens.
than leave everything in her court.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15