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Detach, relax, and realize you're experiencing some of the most intense, uncomfortable feelings you've ever felt in your life. When someone dies, you have grief, but it's an end of a life. Your long marriage is bouncing around like a ping-pong ball, and so are your emotions. They're temporary, your beliefs are not. Zues is one that helped me with that on this board, as did Sandi.


Funny Trumpet posted this. This is exactly right.

You keep talking about your feelings as if they are 'true', 'meaningful', or you have to 'act on them'.

I would do anything to reconcile this M. Because you feel desperate for the M you will act however you think will bring WAS back.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15