My story JB910 (2)

[daybyday]

Hey Jb. I am about 2 weeks ahead of your exact sitch. My W move out this past Saturday and I struggled with all that you are going through now.

I did not help her move. I took my son and we visited some family. Kids do not need to see their Mom move out.

I have helped her with stuff pertaining to S13 but that's it.

It hurts like heck when you will see her packing stuff and seeing it all around the house. It hurts worse when you come home and see it all gone.

But, you will make it through it. If you are like me, its seems so permanent. But as Sparkls advised me, its just"stuff". Stuff can be moved easily.

It has been hard for me so far to not obsess about what WAW is doing, who she is talking to etc. It drives me nuts.

Try to focus on kids when you have them and GAL. I amworking on it but will get there.

One more caveat, they will be really excited about new place and will probably say stuff in front of you. That will hurt too. But, it's something new for them. That newness will fade as Thornton advised me.