IMHO, Think you should go as dark as you possibly can. He is in one room you go to another. He wants to sleep on the bed, you tell him (in a nice way) that is your bed you do not want him in there. The bedroom is your room he is not welcome in there. He asks you a question about seeing someone you tell him it is none of his business and then do not saying anything about the topic anymore. Like I have said before, we are all in the same boat so take my advice with a grain of salt. You do not to set boundaries and consequences. Post them here so others can weigh in.

Red you can make it through this and be an even better Red. I wish and pray for the very best for you!


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W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16