NYGal I am the LBS in a similar sitch as you. My wife is having an affair with another woman who was in a committed relationship and is still stringing her W along. I have been following your situation ans it seems eerily similar to mine.
Hello endofit. I'm sorry you're going through a similar situation. It hurts. I often think there are only a few scripts and they pick one and follow it to the letter. I guess we do, too. I can't believe they are happy, or why would they string anyone along? Are you in touch with the ow's W? Or is your W telling you all this? I wish we could just get to the end of the story. I'm dying to see how it all turns out for all of us!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat