[BrightFuture]

Job, thanks for the feedback. I’m not upset or frustrated with your postings. I just wanted to know how my sitch is different. I know that it’s been longer than most sitches here, and this is probably why I don’t get much response anymore. As I mentioned multiple times I feel like my sitch has been so slow that people are just tired of repeating the same things over and over and are not actually paying much attention to the details.

I actually do think that there has been more communication with H recently, and he is using more excuses to remind about himself. And I’ve replying to all his e-mails and texts to see if this would lead somewhere. But, I understand that it is still a bit slow.

Job, if you feel like you need to step away from my sitch, I will understand that. I would still love to “hear” your opinion, but it is your choice to post or not. You have been one of my most loyal supporters through all of this and will always appreciate this.

2T, same here, sometimes it is in my best interest to do things for H. Plus, he’s been pretty appreciative for all the things I do for him recently.

FY, thanks. I needed to hear this, that some of us would do things for a MLCer (I think wayward means something different and it comes with the nasty behavior) spouse longer than others. Like I said before, sometimes I envy people who can just move from one R to another within a short period of time. And I definitely don’t want to stop doing things just to see if it shakes him up. I just don’t have much energy or motivation for this right now. I might be in a similar boat with H, not making any changes, because it is just comfortable for me to keep the things the way they are.