What is the rule Tim? Believe nothing they say! And don't read into it. It could've very well been her trying to hurt you because she's hurting.
Not your circus. Not your monkeys.
And I understand the double edge sword of snooping. I just *had* to update the mobile banking app on my phone today and saw that H bought desserts from a local place here that we went to on his birthday (it was like $20 so he was buying desserts for OW).
It never ends well for us when we snoop, does it?
I've now recruited some intermediaries that can tell me if something significant happens that I should know about (like them breaking up or something) but it really does'nt change what we're going to do, does it?
We can't approach and scare the squirrel.


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward