Red darlin' I know you feel like you did terrible but I think you actually did a damn good job. Better than I probably could've done at my best.
He basically wants you to continue being his wife while he gets to do whatever the eff he wants. And you made it clear that that wasn't going to work for you.
Yes, he was trying to manipulate you and play you. But you saw it happening.
Tears are totally allowed. For this kind of guy, I don't think light and airy is going to cut it. It seems like he isn't going to respond until you get angry, really angry, and show him you aren't going to put up with this bullsh*t and he better pis$ or get off the pot. (and you get a say in wheather you even want him to pis$)
Keep your head up babe. Show that strength that you've done such a good job cultivating. Its in you, we've seen it!


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward