Crazy. I've been tempted to snoop lately as well but I decided not to. I think seeing W out and about smiling away would really hurt me.
W is a FB junkie so I'm sure there is lots of stuff for me to obsess about.
Tim - don't feel too bad. Would you have rather seen W and OM together in her profile pic? I think it's good that they are currently broken up. Perhaps that has coincided with her being friendly with you again and letting you see S. Throw in the fact that you are looking ripped and W has some thinking to do.