He's still trying to dictate every little aspect of this entire thing to you. Notice that? Time for you to be strong. Time for you to be brave. Time for you to GET A LAWYER and crush his nuts in a vice. He's cold. He's mean. YOU DESERVE BETTER. Stop letting him dictate the terms of everything. First, change the locks on the house. He abandoned the family home, that is your right. He does not get to come and go as he pleases. He needs to start feeling some consequences of his actions (which are pathetic and horrible BTW). Karma will catch up to him because he's with the kind of woman that has no qualms about adultery so guess what's in store for your WH?
Maybe this next statement isn't the point of this site but please stop trying to save this marriage. Please stop being such a good sport about everything. Find your strength, find your anger, be brave, really truly detach, and move on. Oh yeah, don't forget about the lawyer and crushing your cheating a-hole WH's nuts in a vice. That's important. ;-)
