Yes, my XH and I started dating when we were 17, and this was my first relationship post-D (I went on first/sometimes second dates with 4 guys before I met XBF so not even that much dating experience!), so yep, only my second adult relationship. It [censored]. But, I've noticed I'm not thinking about it as much and not thinking so much about it being my fault, so I think that's good. It is somewhat daunting to think about how many more people I may have to let in before I find "the one" (or "the next one" after XH, I guess!)


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final