Need Advice

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I think I am getting to the point where the threat of divorce has lost its edge.

I am starting to believe that the woman I married and was in love with for 20 years no longer exists. I am holding out a very small glimmer of hope that she will snap out of her affair fog but I don't see it. My situation is extremely difficult because the AP is another woman.

I am now moving on to a place where I have to try and GAL and go forward as if I will never be with her again. THAT is the hard part.