She might be skittish and doesn't want to talk R unless she's sure what you're going to say. Light and breezy! Tell her you're happy to meet if she wants but if not, that's fine too.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward