If you did see OW upset and W is contacting you need to use all you have learned Ny. If she doesn't want to talk now then don't let it get you down. Keep doing what you have been. Let her sit with her thoughts for a bit. Do you want to just run back to her after all you have been through? Or do you want her to want you back and to focus on building a strong R. Let her be for now. Don't pursue.
Also. That was your chance to make our soap opera into a reality NY. If you passed her on the street
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
