CWOL - I am in the opposite boat - my H moved me to a state with no spousal support one year before he dropped the bomb. I will get no alimony even though I stayed at home (both of us decided this together so I gave up one career and never started another). So, I get nothing going forward for the 14 years I spent raising his kids and taking care of them while he built up his career traveling every week and screwing his co-worker the last 8 months. Even tonight (his overnight with the boys) I will pick them up from school and feed them until he gets them at 6. I am not complaining only because that gives me more time with the boys, of which I will take every minute I can. I understand your frustrations. I think infidelity should negate any spousal support or the person responsible should be the one to pay it.

Sorry for the hijack 1313


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16