Mirage, What an excellent posting! Cali, what he said is the truth. You may not realize/feel like a success story right now, but in time, you will come to realize that you are. No matter whether you reconcile or divorce, you fought the battle and still came out a better man who has worked on himself and been a roll model for those reading your threads.
Please do not sell yourself short...you are definitely a success story in my books.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
