I did address it, but not in the way i should have. ( I either yelled at him, or i didn't enforce what i said i was gonna do) Big mistake on my part. My S, and my W got along great in the early years when he was young then it just changed, and i'm not sure why. Now i'm not making excuses here, but there were alot of time when her(our) D disrespected me, and NOTHING was said so it goes both ways. Like i said we failed each other. That was just one of the main things that i knew i should have corrected.