It is like this, our relationships are like the support strings on our parachute, as we tumble to the earth some strings may snap. The more support strings you have the safer your descent to earth.
So by having a wide range of support strings we are less likely to feel abandoned in our world. The fear of abandonment is less, this is a safety feature in life. We have an extra reserve parachute.
To jump with a parachute with few strings is to feel abandoned. In this way when you jump in tandem and your tandem partner cuts the connection you are safe to fall to earth.
It is up to you to pack your own parachute and count the strings.
If the plane stalls you can jump to safety.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW