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[Vanilla]

Mu

Let us examine your pretzel thinking. The logic makes sense to you off course so let us unravel it.

Mu it isn't possible for one connection and only one to fulfil all your needs. That is a tremendous burden for any partner to have to be everything to another.

I am not thinking of sexual exclusivity but emotional need. We have the need as humans for different sorts of connections and they include
-mentoring
-frienship
-leadership
-group connection
-humour
-single cause involvement
-sharing
-love and human understanding
-caring and compassion

These are essential for our wellbeing and support in life, they include relatives, colleagues, family and peer group. Some are men and some are women. Connection of this type with women is like having sisters, aunts and daughters. Some connections are for life others for now.

Any W would struggle to provide this and frankly it's unfair to ask it.

Having such connections, sisters under the skin supports and does not undermine your primary R. I think it is a wonderful amazing thing to have the capacity to build friendships and connections with a wide variety of women, old birds like V, young whippersnappers like Jellyb and witty kind women like Fo.

I hope you can see that these connections by supporting Mu are supporting his desire for R. They are a positive influence on your goal to stand. They do not detract.

They give Mu insight and guidance and in return those with connection receive the same from you. Frienship given freely is one off the greatest gifts in our lives.

Mu I would very much like to help you reach a 180 on this, so that you can enjoy the help support and care you receive. That you can see these connections as a spiritual support for shift and healing. That you understand this connection is from a wonderful uplifting space and offers you extra support for a new M.

Enjoy your friendships and care and sisterly love.

Know that this adds to your development and healing.

V