Oh BTW - by trolling existing posts and the comments coming back to me - I've really learned lots on how I can aid my 180. Some of the things I've learned that I may not have thought of was:

- don't be always asking the kids to do something for you. I was never a "go get me a.." guy but I have no idea how my W perceived me when I did - so for now - I've dialed it right down. Better safe than sorry

- Clean up your tool/work area - underway - again great idea

So any ideas will help. I'm especially interested in opinions from the ladies. What are things that you would like to see improved on in your man.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017