Thanks for the reply Cadet! I ask myself is my W really worth the fight after being cheated on? I see it this way we both failed each other in our M. At one time she was the fighter, and i in a sense was the quitter(did not listen) and she got to the point where she crossed the line, and figured there was no return(infidelity) Well now it's my turn to fight while she's in this crazy stage in her life. It's not all my fault i know that, but i did help put her there.The DR book has surely gave me a new approach to things, and how a marriage should be. I'm not going to give up on my W, but while i have time on my side i'm going to become better man i know i can be.
