But remember, there are countless stories of people who were in the process of D that reconciled. Many of them even divorced and remarried each other.
I know seeing those papers in black and white are a shock to your system and it stings. It's ok to feel sad, this whole situation is sad.
Honestly, from an outsiders perspective looking in, your H seems very cruel. He was cruel when you were together and he was cruel when your S had an accident.
If things don't work out with your H, I want you to know there are men out there that would LOVE to be with a woman like you. Men that will honor and respect you. Men that will trust you. And men that will walk through fire for a woman like you.
Allow yourself to feel your feelings, MB. The fastest way through them, is through them.
