The more I think about things, the angrier I become. For the betrayal for at least 9 years, for my wife to caught, then file for D, for her to blame ME for it, then for her to be rewarded 40+% of my current take home pay (at least temporarily until divorce is finalized). Sure I get a deduction for taxes for the alimony portion, but still... What incentive is there for her to come back think about reconciling when she can carry on with the OM in her apartment, have my S11 for half the time, and have a big chunk of my paycheck every month? This is a terrible situation for me, help me understand the logic in this...
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
