Sparkling not so bright

[broke]

I agree with Thornton. So a quick story and then I need to get off this forum and actually start my day…lol.

So, I have a friend. Her H cheated on her, they tried MC to reconcile, he went back to OW, and left her and her two kids. The OW texted her last week and asked to meet so they wouldn't be awkward at family events in the future. I told my friend to skip it, but she went. Her two takeaways - she is convinced the OW is on meds because she showed zero emotion (the OW did say her family isn't talking to her anymore) and she said her H looks very stressed out and overweight.

I think that is karma. While we may not be able to see it, I can't believe that two people who base their relationship on deceit can really trust one another and be all that happy. They are always going to question what they have and what they have left behind. (at least, that is my hope and hearing my friend's story kind of confirmed it)

Enjoy your day Sparkles - hope your dress shopping wasn't too painful and match day will be bright and sunny!