Thornton's right. I bet H isn't as happy as you think. There was an evening when I saw W out with our mutual friends, laughing and having a good time. My heart sank a little, then I realized, wait, I'm out with friends, and I'm laughing and (pretending I'm) having a good time, too!
Two days later she appeared at my office like a sad puppy telling me how much she misses me.
Looks can be deceiving.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat