"And once the storm is over, you will not remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won't even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is for sure: when you come out of the storm you will not be the same person who walked in"
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
"And once the storm is over, you will not remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won't even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is for sure: when you come out of the storm you will not be the same person who walked in"
Love that quote….also, love to know that I am not the only one that envisions karma and the OP :-)
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
So after I texted the screenshot of W's text by mistake.... Doh... Then I said how about coffee T or W? Haven't heard a peep. Skittish little squirrel.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
I need advice, and quick! W texted: Will you be available this evening to talk? I texted back: What do you want to talk about?
I am so afraid of getting hurt again. But read on...
And get this. So I leave my office, heading over to another building for a job interview. I'm lookin' good, strutting my stuff, getting psyched for a good interview, when I see a woman approaching me. I give her a big smile, and as she gets closer, I SWEAR it's ow with red-rimmed eyes. It caught me so off balance that I can't be sure, but I'm pretty sure it was her and that she didn't look so good.
I don't know what to think.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Don't think anything! Go if you think you can keep it together and DB your a$$ off. Don't backslide! And be sure that if R does come up, you need to ask about OW. if she's still in the picture, you have your answer. She won't come back until OW is really really gone.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
The interview went great btw. I was rattled seeing ow but only for a moment.And the text from W was luckily when I got back to my office.
I'm sure W wants to talk about our R, but I'm not sure if it will be some final goodbye or telling me that she's done with ow. I've seen too many people be disappointed on here. I'm scared and nervous, and not quite ready to do the DB Academy Award winning performance, if that's what's called for. (As in, act breezy and confident when I'm sweating and have clammy hands.)
Update: Just got a text: Maybe it's not such a good idea to talk. I have no real topic.
Sigh. So much for being sure what she wants to talk about.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
If you did see OW upset and W is contacting you need to use all you have learned Ny. If she doesn't want to talk now then don't let it get you down. Keep doing what you have been. Let her sit with her thoughts for a bit. Do you want to just run back to her after all you have been through? Or do you want her to want you back and to focus on building a strong R. Let her be for now. Don't pursue.
Also. That was your chance to make our soap opera into a reality NY. If you passed her on the street
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
She might be skittish and doesn't want to talk R unless she's sure what you're going to say. Light and breezy! Tell her you're happy to meet if she wants but if not, that's fine too.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
Tyler, you're right! We were a mere 40 yards from a bus stop!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
