Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey Vapo and Broke,

I also am thinking the no contact will be good for me. W and I are still so much in each other lives and also so much apart.

I found my self getting mad when she has been texting me and calling me, with the house for sale and kids stuff. It so frustrating, nothing about how I am or how my day is, I am sick of it. I have been yelling at the phone for her to leave me alone before I let it go to the answering machine. I used to do this before BD. And to think of it for the same reasons, never to ask me how I am, its most of the time for me to do something or to check on me.

To become the best version of myself I have been thinking about that. I think I need to work on my people skills. I don't have a lot, I am a good listener. Talking and relating to people not so much.

Physically I have lost 30 pounds, I am wearing pants and shirts that I used to wear before I was married. I can see now the next step can be working on my strength or building muscles.

So W did come home last night and she talked to me about the frustrations of getting her house. I had to stop myself from trying to fix it by offering suggestions. I instead just listened and was supportive. Even though I didn't agree with her thought process. She was putting her deal at risk over a couple of Items the owner does not want to fix now.

I also will have an accepted conditional sale of our house tonight. We just have to fax in the paper work.