Thanks everyone for your good advice. I've seen it happen too many times on here where we get our hopes and expectations up, only to be disappointed again. I've gone through all the negative scenarios, the worst being "I am so sorry" because: I have to tell you that ow is moving in I have to tell you that ow and I got married on Friday I have to tell you that ow and I are madly in love,got married on Friday, will be honeymooning in Bali and can you have all your stuff out of the garage by tomorrow and would you mind watering all the tulips you've planted over the years so ow and I can enjoy them when we return.
So what do I do? Take a screen shot of her text to send to a friend for advice and send it to W by mistake! All I could do is laugh!!! So I texted. Oops, butt text. Sorry.
O.M.G. Augggggghhhhhhh!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Lol oh no! (PS you're going to get yelled at to start a new thread!)
Try not to play out the scenarios in your head. If you go, think about just yourself. How you're going to make sure you stick to the DB plan. It doesn't matter what she has to say. It's just one more little thing in the storybook of NY, right?
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
It's great you can laugh about the "butt text" instead of being mortified and trying to cover it up.
Sure it could be negative, it could equally be positive. Who knows? Maybe she come to tell you one of those things you wrote, that would be negative. A positive may be OW is mad she asked you out to coffee and tries to confront you at coffe shop but on the way gets hit in the head and develops amnesia forgetting everything, positive. see positives are easy to find
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
Right Spark! I still have to laugh about it. Good thing I didn't send the text about "Let's all hate W and H and XF and all the OWs for at least the next 48 hours!" LOL
Tyler how can I ever get to sleep if I'm laughing so much? Sounds like you are watching soap operas!
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11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
How can I start a new thread yet? This is too good!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Hit by a bus is better. Or thrown under the bus by NYGal.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Or hit on head then stumbles in front of car. During which time W excuses herself to go bathroom. You hear a crash and see Ow flying from hood of car towards you. You run over to her and then throw her under passing bus?
Wow. You really brought the dark out of me tonight NY. this time change is really screwing with people tonight.
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The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
see positives are easy to find