It's great you can laugh about the "butt text" instead of being mortified and trying to cover it up.

Sure it could be negative, it could equally be positive. Who knows? Maybe she come to tell you one of those things you wrote, that would be negative. A positive may be OW is mad she asked you out to coffee and tries to confront you at coffe shop but on the way gets hit in the head and develops amnesia forgetting everything, positive. smile see positives are easy to find

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.