I'm just going to type everything he's texted me since v-day so I can see it written down:
2/14:
H: do you have an american airlines frequent flyer number?
Me: no.
2/16:
Can I have my old orthopedic pillow?
Me: if I can find it.
H: Should be in the office.
Me: Ok. How do you want to do this? It's kind of gross, do you want me to wash it first?
H: Gross like dusty?
Me: Dusty and looks stained and icky
H; Sure. Thank you. They sent me an email about my shirt, has it arrived?
Me: not that I've seen.
H: Just wrap it up so it doesnt get wet and put it next to the door. I'll grab it later.
Me (bad DBing, I know!): Can we talk at some point? Or do you still need more time?
H: if you want. you should know I canceled the IC appointment today.
Me: That's unfortunate. I guess I just wanted to talk about CO. Namely, getting to the airport in philly.
H: I was going to take the train in on the day before and just spend the night at the airport.
Me: Okay I was just going to offer a ride but sounds like you've got a plan already.
H: Let me know when I can come by for that pillow.
Me: whenever.
2/18:
H: May I use one of the tvs there for my xbox?
Me: (the next day) Ok.
3/1: I would like to come pick up more of my things at some point today, will you be around?
Me: Sorry today and tomorrow are really busy days for me. Can we try like friday or saturday?
H: Friday I work until 3:30, saturday I'm off but busy all day.
H: we don't have to talk but I'm coming by at some point today to get my bike. If its in the garage, I will get it and ride it back.
Me: Friday should be just fine then. And yes, its in the garage assuming you left it there. I haven't touched it.
Me: oh and your shirt finally came. Its in the mailbox.
H: cool, thank you.
3/3:
Me: double checking that you're coming by tmororw at like 3:45?
H: I get of at 3:30 itll take me longer than 15 minutes to bike there.
Me: I didnt realize you were biking. Ok.
3/4:
H: Im getting off work early and one of my coworkers is offer ing to drive me out there, are you available?
Me: Yes.
- he came and got his things, couldn't look at me, awkwards as f*ck-
3/11:
Me: Hey. you probably already have taken care of it, but just in case I wanted to remind you that you need to update your address.
H: Did you get a letter about it?
Me: nope.
H: I haven't offically changed addresses yet. I was debating on not doing it at all in lieu of how soon I'm leaving.
H: also would you mind putting my drivers permit and w-2 forms in the mailbox? I can pick them up after work tonight.
Me: I don't believe either of those are here.
H: Permit should be in your glovebox. W-2 would've been on the big talbe before you cleaned the place.
Me :Ok.

Other weird thing, this is one text thread. The next set came as a different text thread (Iphones have two types of messaging).
Today:
H: did you find either of my w-2s or my drivers permit and if so can I come pick them up today?
me: I did , they've been in the mailbox since I said "Ok." sorry for the miscommunication.
H: it's alright, thanks for letting me know.


Looking back at it, todays text do have a slightly different feel to me but I"m probably reading too much into it. Not going to change anything until I have more data I suppose.


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW
I moved to different state: 06/16
Currently: Trying to move forward