I'm just going to type everything he's texted me since v-day so I can see it written down: 2/14: H: do you have an american airlines frequent flyer number? Me: no. 2/16: Can I have my old orthopedic pillow? Me: if I can find it. H: Should be in the office. Me: Ok. How do you want to do this? It's kind of gross, do you want me to wash it first? H: Gross like dusty? Me: Dusty and looks stained and icky H; Sure. Thank you. They sent me an email about my shirt, has it arrived? Me: not that I've seen. H: Just wrap it up so it doesnt get wet and put it next to the door. I'll grab it later. Me (bad DBing, I know!): Can we talk at some point? Or do you still need more time? H: if you want. you should know I canceled the IC appointment today. Me: That's unfortunate. I guess I just wanted to talk about CO. Namely, getting to the airport in philly. H: I was going to take the train in on the day before and just spend the night at the airport. Me: Okay I was just going to offer a ride but sounds like you've got a plan already. H: Let me know when I can come by for that pillow. Me: whenever. 2/18: H: May I use one of the tvs there for my xbox? Me: (the next day) Ok. 3/1: I would like to come pick up more of my things at some point today, will you be around? Me: Sorry today and tomorrow are really busy days for me. Can we try like friday or saturday? H: Friday I work until 3:30, saturday I'm off but busy all day. H: we don't have to talk but I'm coming by at some point today to get my bike. If its in the garage, I will get it and ride it back. Me: Friday should be just fine then. And yes, its in the garage assuming you left it there. I haven't touched it. Me: oh and your shirt finally came. Its in the mailbox. H: cool, thank you. 3/3: Me: double checking that you're coming by tmororw at like 3:45? H: I get of at 3:30 itll take me longer than 15 minutes to bike there. Me: I didnt realize you were biking. Ok. 3/4: H: Im getting off work early and one of my coworkers is offer ing to drive me out there, are you available? Me: Yes. - he came and got his things, couldn't look at me, awkwards as f*ck- 3/11: Me: Hey. you probably already have taken care of it, but just in case I wanted to remind you that you need to update your address. H: Did you get a letter about it? Me: nope. H: I haven't offically changed addresses yet. I was debating on not doing it at all in lieu of how soon I'm leaving. H: also would you mind putting my drivers permit and w-2 forms in the mailbox? I can pick them up after work tonight. Me: I don't believe either of those are here. H: Permit should be in your glovebox. W-2 would've been on the big talbe before you cleaned the place. Me :Ok.
Other weird thing, this is one text thread. The next set came as a different text thread (Iphones have two types of messaging). Today: H: did you find either of my w-2s or my drivers permit and if so can I come pick them up today? me: I did , they've been in the mailbox since I said "Ok." sorry for the miscommunication. H: it's alright, thanks for letting me know.
Looking back at it, todays text do have a slightly different feel to me but I"m probably reading too much into it. Not going to change anything until I have more data I suppose.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward