Sparks, you crack me up lol.

I think you did a good job by not texting him last. You ended the convo, that's DB'ing 101.

Your H needs to feel a sense of loss, that's what will make him question himself. If anything is going to work to bring him home, it will be this. You are on the right track, trust the process.

Time change.. ugh. I'm with you. It's back to driving to work in the dark for me. Oh well, at least we'll have a little more sunshine in the evening.