Still moving in a new direction

[mleigh4]

Thanks Tfish. I did the same, asked H if we are filing like normal. He said he guesses, whatever is financially better. Honestly, I'm not sure if it is for me. He makes twice as much as me, it throws us into a high income bracket.....it's a month from filing, so I will just do like normal, but it may be something for me to look into this year. He wants to be on his own, right? He should be doing his own taxes! I wouldn't mind having our finances completely separated.

While we were talking taxes, I told him I had been thinking, and in regards to the boat and RV, all I ask is to get back what I put in, which was 5k each. I told him he could keep them, sell them, up to him. We were going to sell the RV and split, but I don't feel right about that. H dad owned it and sold it to us for 10k, at least 30k less than what it was worth. He did that with the intention for us to enjoy it as a family. To sell it and keep the money isn't the right thing to do, in fact I would just keep my 5k and give the rest back to his dad if anything. H responded we should talk about that more.

Anyway, H came by last night to visit with S. Got here at 8:30 and hung out for about an hour. The house must have smelled wonderful, I made a delicious pasta dish with grilled veggies before he came. He had his sparkly pocket jeans on again. Lol.

He was searching all over the house for caulk, because when I asked him for it, like he told me to, he said shoot, I put it in my work truck. WHY I thought??? He doesn't come here in his work truck!!?? OMG that mush brain. While he was searching, he found a long lost camera that has been missing and I really had thought he had taken it. Right away, H hooked it up to be charged and starting looking through the pictures. Looked to be pics from 3 to 4 years ago. He was shouting out to S and I to look at this one, oh look at this one. He then asked if he could take the memory card home to download the pics to his computer.

I wanted to say, why? You were miserable during this time, remember?? Lol. I wonder what it will be like for him to look through these?

S and I had a wonderful rainy Sunday today. I hope you all had a good weekend.

Our first counseling session is on Wed.