Broke, I really don't know anymore. Many people say the cheating spouse is miserable and in turmoil. They deserve to be don't they? That is justice. But they also have to be detached in order to leave their families. Not fair. I know.
The question you and I and most of us has is, how do you really, mentally detach from someone who rejected you?
1. Some on this board date others or have attraction for someone else. Not recommended, but I find they do better. At least short term. I'm not sure about long term. I also find WS values them more. Not sure if this would be true of WAS. 2. Think of all the negatives about your spouse and why you are better off without them. (I try this and then it sets me off into such extreme anger) 3. Be busy. GAL. I try this too, but husband is always on my mind. 4. Acceptance and time? Maybe. But how long already?
