I don't know if this is what the vets would say, but if she's giving kibbles of doubt - that isn't enough to stop the steamroller she started. Having pangs of doubt didn't stop my wife from stopping and starting the D, but never got help to stop the affair, so that's what ultimately kept out D going.
If your W's OM is convincing, but not perfect (none of us are), she might have seen something that makes her doubt, so she realizes she needs backup plan B - you.
Honestly, I think you keep moving forward with things. Tuesday would really put a huge dose of reality into her.
I sent my W an email with all our agreed upon stipulations for the D last night - I have got nothing back. I have realized that moving my ship onto it's new course is the only way to protect myself. DB'ing really means for me that I'm starting over, and if WW wants me, she knows where to find me. Stronger trumpet = happier trumpet.
I'm ok without her. Have you gotten to the point where you'd truly be ok without Mrs. 1313?
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
