I am in the same boat as painter. Can you not pursue if you see her? Your track record is not good.

If you can't just validate and be casual then I think you should not go. You are setting up another cycle of so.

What can you do?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15