Flight's Thread #2

[Flight]

I think we are in a countdown until move out date. We interact obviously since we are still in the same house and still have a child, but it is clear I am just a roommate to her, an ex. Other than if we have a talk that goes into the R, she is the master of detachment. She acts like we never had an intimate relationship. So again, I don't know if I go basically NC, or still make small efforts at connecting when we are together. I know Sandi's advice in certain situations is to act like you are dropping them. I definitely know to not go to her for any conversations. I could tell when I was making up an excuse to talk to her. I know that doesn't work. But it seems talking about things like how she is doing or what her challenges are seems to make the wall come down and I see there is someone in there who actually has feelings.