Great advice from 1313. I completely agree that your H really starts paying attention when you create distance and detach from him. You sound so much more confident - build on that and start DBing even harder. Reread your boundaries and sandi's rules and grade yourself. That's my homework tonight too. Makes it easier to focus on what we need to. Keep it up! Glad yesterday's shower was fun and you bailed on the date! You are strong - keep it up, Red!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16