I'm glad you survived yesterday and are already acting "as if" on the phone. Not sure why you are helping pick her couch and chair? Anyway, keep up the DBing, make sure she only sees you at your best now. Act light and breezy, dressed well and no forced talk about R or M. It's going to be tough getting used to her not being there. Trust me, you will need to force yourself to go out and GAL or you may sink into a deep sadness being in quiet house. It's only been two months and she hasn't seen true consequences of her moving out yet. Start your detaching in earnest and let's hope she sees that you are a man she was stupid to leave.
Glad Butler made it in!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16