Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[mleigh4]

Hi Melweb. Job and Hawho have given you some excellent advice. I have learned through this, each situation on here is unique, there really is no right or wrong. It becomes about what works for you.

Who are you, who were you before H, who do you want to be today? Who do you want to be in the eyes of your children, friends and family? Those are questions to ask yourself and start working on. Basically, take the focus off H and put it on you. The distraction will help to keep you from trying to figure him out.