Quick update:
Today my 6 year old says "Daddy mommy broke your heart, is that why you are moving to a new house?" Mind you I've never said anything to the kids about us but when I melted I to my W. She said she told him last week we were getting a divorce. Then W says I'm moving foreword with a divorce I've never trusted you from the day we met (15 years ago). My sons crying saying "daddy don't go to another house we are family we stay together" it doesn't even phase her. Wtf