It's kind of amazing to me that your WW's think that they can ask for help. My H left me and I try to ask for as little help from him as possible. And I only ask if it has to do with the kids. I haven't asked for his help outside of getting help with kids in 8 months. And he's the one who filed, not me. The wives who left seem pretty bold to ask in my opinion. That being said, I agree with 1313, do as little as possible unless it affects the kids. Then, do it without question.
Tim - good for you on the GALing!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16